This is a discussion on question on adoption? within the Luvin's Social Lounge forums, part of the Luvin Poker's Social Lounge category; my mom passed away last week and my dad told me a secret that she forbid him from ever telling ...
my mom passed away last week and my dad told me a secret that she forbid him from ever telling me. before my mom and dad met my mom got pregnant when she was 15, it 1959 and not taken well. my question is how do i go about finding her. all i know is that she was born in little rock ark. in either september or october of 1959. thanks in advance for any help!
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my condolences Brett
you can start with a site like this.
I hope you find her
Maybe your Dad can give you more information?
cj, that was all the info he could give me. He did not meet my mom until the end of 1960.
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There probably isn't much you can do, seeing as most states seal up adoption records and cannot be accessed by anyone but the birth parents.
I've run into many brick walls trying to locate my birth parents, but those records are sealed and the only person who can give me access is my birth mom. Since I don't know her, I can't get a hold of her to open them up
Each state is different though regarding adoption rules. An adoption that was done that far in the past may be public record still, as most states didn't go to a closed record until a little bit later (at least thats the way Mississippi is)
Best of luck to you. You should contact an adoption lawyer in that state and ask questions. It may be your best place to start, as they can answer all your questions regarding that states adoption policies, record rules, etc.
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Best of luck in your search
You have my sympathy Brett in the passing of your Mom. Best of luck to you in your search.
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